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Thursday, December 13, 2007

Family: It's A Spiritual Thing

You know remembering and connecting to our roots and family is critical to our spiritual health. Sometimes this fast-paced-digitized-noise polluted world of ours prevents us from taking time to reflect on this. Over the past few weeks since my mother departed this life early Thanksgiving morning, I have interacted more with my family on an intense level than any other time in recent decades.

What I have realized during this period about family is that you don’t need to see them every day or week, or even speak to them regularly to know that there is a deeply rooted and inextricable connection that you share with them. Yes, no one can get on your nerves like a brother, sister, aunt, cousin, etc. But you are part of them and they are part of you. It’ a spiritual thing.

God chose for us to share a closer bond with them than the rest of our human family. So I am thankful for all of my family no matter how lovable or crazy they may be. I hope you all take a minute to lovingly reflect on your family and remember to see them without anger, judgment, and all of the things that prevent us from fully sharing the God given spiritual connection we share with them.

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I am very proud of the this sign in The Old Spanish Quarter in St. Augustine, Florida, because it marks the site of a house owned in the 1760's by a Minorcan settler, Franciso Triay, who was related to my mother. How fitting it was that I would see this sign on December 1, which was the day after my mother's funeral. Life has a way of reminding you of who you are.

Me Accepting Humanitarian Award at Lincoln Center on November 10th
The Punjabi Literary and Cultural Society presented me with a humanitarian award Saturday, November 10th at Lincoln Center in New York. Also receiving awards were United Nations Church Center Chaplain, Reverend Kathleen Stone and Matt Weiner, Program Director of The Interfaith Center in New York. The awards were presented on a program that was full of Sikh, Hindu and Sufi music, dancing and literature. I was proud to be presented with an award on this program because, I believe that most communities around the globe want to be free to express their faith and cultural traditions without fear, harm and judgment. This is what my weekly column and work involving The New Seminary at the Untied Nations is about.
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